Something that’s already dead can’t be recovered.
Have you ever stayed with someone for five seconds of happiness in the midst of all the fights they have?
Think for a moment in that relationship that you keep with that special person, that you’ve always seen wonderful despite the fact that the vast majority of the time they go fighting or you just feel separated. That relationship that all your friends hate because they say it hurts you, but you defend with all your strength.
Do you remember every night you cried for that person? Every time you begged a little attention? Remember that time when you thought if you stopped talking to him, he was going to look for you? You know perfectly well that he never wrote you a message and that you lied to your best friend by telling him that he did it when you were the one who humiliated himself once again.
I understand you, it’s hard to beat a person you’ve really fallen in love with, but is it worth leaving your pride aside for keeping a false love? It’s toxic everything that makes you feel, manipulates you saying for few seconds some nice things, and then return to make you feel that you are worth nothing. Is that good for you? If you give everything for that person, is it wrong to expect the same thing?
No more crying, there are thousands of people in the world.
If you know a person who is going through a toxic relationship, don’t make him feel worse with negative comments. That is not the right way for you to realize what is happening around him. You know what you can do? It is easy, make him feel supported, but not supported in his relationship, I mean make him feel that he is not alone. Help him open his eyes so he can get rid of that person, help him out of the hole, you’re his best ally!